So, yesterday I was talking to some of my friends about it, even though I don't remember how is started.

It annoys me so very much and I'll tell you why:

Do you know why most kids get molested? BECAUSE STUPID PARENTS ARE TOO ASHAMED TO SPEND TEN FUCKING MINUTES TO EXPLAIN THEIR KIDS WHAT SEX IS, BOOHOO! And it pisses me off to no end.

I'm scared of the amount of friends who've told me they were abused as kids. Even once a girl from my work told me her uncle used to caress her in a suspicious way. It was one of those moments when i literally felt like "I don't want to live on this planet anymore".

Basically what I want to say is: you people who plan on having children one day or even are recent parents, please, PLEAAAAASE, for heaven's sake, talk about sex to your kids! At the age of 5 or as soon as they start speaking, please have a serious conversation about it. Tell them what sex is and that inimate parts, theirs or anyone else's, shouldn't be touched. If necessary, set an age for them to start having sexual relationships, but be realistic. Don't say they can only do it at the age of 38, that's just ridiculous. I myself started with 16, so that's where I'll draw the line.

Also, once they hit 13 or so when the hormones explode, have ANOTHER talk, this time about diseases and pregnancy, because, really, that's very important. But, most importantly, tell your kids that if someone touches them in the ways you said are wrong, they MUST tell you right away. Even if it's someone from the family or a close friend(and, believe, it happens quite a lot), they MUST tell you, because that's just wrong.

Tell them also that even if such a thing happens, you'll still love them. Most molesters blackmail kids with stuff such as "your parent's will hate you if you tell them", wich is not true, but the clueless children WILL believe, unless you tell them otherwise.

Also, don't give me that shit that it's ok when it's two kids, it's NOT! Some of the people who talked to me were abused by kids their age or just slightly older, and their psychologic scars are HUGE! If you think you can try to convince me otherwise, don't even bother. I'll just shamelessly ignore you. <3

Plus, whe you have a kid, keep your eye on them. Those things happen when the parents are distracted with other adults or taking a bath and things like those. DON'T LEAVE YOUR KID ALONE!

If you still feel uncertain about things I said, feel free to leave a comment and just talk about it.

Fuck, reading Lolita is making me disturbed in so many ways I'd rather just never know. *crai*

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